before you decide your marriage is over

Maybe your spouse has said they’re done. Maybe the word divorce has come up. Or maybe you’re the one lying awake, wondering how much longer you can keep going.

When your marriage is in crisis, your mind demands an answer right now. Stay? Leave? Fight harder? Stop trying?

But the most useful first question is a different one:

What do I need to see clearly before I decide?

this guide is for you if...

Your spouse has said they’re unsure, want space, or are done

You’re exhausted and can’t tell whether you want relief or repair

Everyone has an opinion, and you can’t hear your own

Your mind keeps spinning with worst-case stories

You want to do your part without chasing, pleading, or pretending you’re okay

I’m Taralee Eddington, a Marriage Crisis Coach, founder of Peaceful Heart Journey, and creator of the FOCUS Framework™.

I’ve walked with many people who felt heartbroken, confused, and unsure whether their marriage could be saved. Some were ready to fight for it. Some weren’t sure. What they needed first wasn’t a verdict. It was a steadier way to see what was happening and respond with intention.

That’s what I created this guide to give you.

With love,